Quote: Are any of you struggling with reconciling who your H's are today, who you thought they were pre A, and who they were DURING the night mare?
YES!!!
You've nailed it. It's as though there are three different people I've been calling H all of these years. Although they all look the same, they are distinctly different in personality, character and moral aptitude.
Body snatchers?
Right now, I'm trying to get to know the fella who's been hanging around the house and sleeping in my bed. I'm not really sure who HE is.
I mean... I like him a lot and think he's swell and all (in fact, he's my favorite so far) - but is he a permanent resident or just a temporary guest? Am I to expect a fourth personality to show up some day?
Quote: Just HOW did CJ feel when he composed that detailed "letter from me" confessing to a two year affair with my ex fiance (which he e-mailed to OW as "proof" I was a cheater first
