Separation, Settlement, or Servellience?

[Yasu]

I guess I switched over to the other thread regarding the 11th as I and others performed this thread to be convoluted.

Settlement has not worked out. I am no longer going to allow myself to react or respond or "mindread" servielience tactics. Divorce is imminent. I have explained as much as I can in the other thread.
My task now, as per my lessons learned thus far on the forum, leave me at distinguishing between withdrawal and detachment, with the latter being my goal. As per therapies today, it appears I am facing more grieving. As well, I must come to terms with the obsessing.

I feel I have the pursuing under control albeit via withdrawal, as in the last six months. That will have to do for now. See 11th hour for responses to your additional inquiries. I'm trying to be a good student under the curcumstances. Have visit with Psychiatrist about meds Monday at 3. yas