Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

[ptcr]

Yep....good point, get off account to save MY sanity.

Prior to doing this though I googled where the charge was coming from....teleflora in Illinois. Looks like his GF's mom died yesterday and he probably sent flowers to her funeral home. She is only a FEW YEARS OLDER THAN MY HUSBAND!!!!! No wonder he told me he was scared yesterday at the doctor.

So, on the positive side to this news, i did get her green card husband's name for my L from the obituary! HA!!!! Have his FB page, etc, now downloaded onto my hard drive so this pain was worthwhile.

I remind myself....this is a process. This is in God's hands. I cannot control him, the situation, or anything else. This could be good and if it is not then whatever too.

I applied for a plot at the community garden today (8 x 10) through the farmer's market! I am super excited as the only place i have full sun for vegetables is in my front yard and neighborhood covenants dictate I can only have GRASS and not only that it better look good too. LOL! It is an organic garden though and I know nothing about organic gardening. It is "community" though so I assume this means we learn from each other. They also have 8 x 20 plots. Would this be better? Stuck in suburbia, I have no idea how large my parents' garden was....gigantic.

So, I sit here on this beautiful evening with a full moon, warm weather, a comfortable screen porch, my kids who love me and plans for growing myself some vegetables, and a repaired vent so I don't have to worry about bats! My poor GF counted over a dozen leaving her roof this evening.

PMA-trying to keep up the PMA...calling the bank now and saying prayers for my enemy and her loss because I too have lost a mother and it is just awful.