is this your main thread? Also I asked you a question and didn't see the response.
What do you think your husband would SAY - HIS reasons are for not wanting the marriage to work?
Are any of his reasons valid? What are you doing about those valid complaints?
Most of what you write, not all but most, is about what your h did to you or some of HIS defects.
But he is not here so we can do nothing for him. We can only help YOU
and you are the only person you control. You said you would "not tolerate HIS bad behavior again" but that's not really a trait to work on in you.
If you dig deep, you'll come up with something you CAN work on b/c otherwise you're giving your power away and not being in charge of your life.
So how can we help you?
What are the traits you want to work on, other than your medical issues?
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
