so, h called and did not answer then called back this afternoon and was upset that when d and myself passed him yesterday we did not wave (we were at a 4 way stop) and last weekend we did not speak to him first when we saw h at the store.
So, the conversation today was a bit frustrating as h was offended we did not acknowledge him and treated as if he were not there:( so sorry. When i stated i can not act the way i want as it will not be received by h he agreed - i proceeded to ask how does h want us to respond - and i do not recall if h answered or remained silent. nonetheless, the conversation ended and i had to meet h at part time job.
well, h looks really sad in eyes, and i asked how long we were to keep going this way - h responded not sure. again he seemed upset that i was not calling or pursuing him via text, phone, or e-mail - not sure but that sounds like a baby step - maybe things are getting to him even if so slightly - not really sure.
well, i will be cutting off further contact as we have nothing to talk about, although as coach suggested, i did mention coming over for dinner next weekend, and he stated he would check - this is the second attempt and if he does not accept i will continue no contact and look for another approach. i did give it a try as the coach asked:")
