The kids seem to be dealing ok. The youngest (D5) brings it up in a nice sort of way. The boys haven't brought it up.
The toll is more with me. I'm back to the pain and anxiety I first felt 4 months ago. With the help of my DB coach I'm back to "Friendly Detachment". It is so hard. I'm trying to continue to focus on myself and the kids but working through this divorce stuff is really hard.
Talk to the L on Monday and we went ahead and answered her D papers. So now the work on figuring out the financial docs the state requires and our parenting plan. The next few months with her here in the house and the thought of the fight that is coming because of our difference in what we want for the kids is very discomforting.
