I'm finding that there are far more similarities than differences with many of the situations around here.
In hearing what we have in common, (as unpleasant as it is) it helps me to feel less alone and not as weak as my H would have had me believe - one year ago.
Yea. According him, I was weak, co-depenant and too emotional because I cried and threw-up a lot after he informed me that he was deserting our M and his responsibilities. And then of course, there was that minor detail about him screwing around with someone at work. Apparently, I was enormously weak when he told me that 'he loved me, but wasn't IN love with me', 'didn't think that he ever had been in love with me', 'that I loved him way more than he loved me', 'that he hadn't been alone in a long time and now it was his turn to be selfish', AND then went on to inform me that 'I was a MAJOR mistake in his life'.
