Welcome to the board

You are on moderation and the best way to get off is to post in small frequent amounts until you are release from the time delay.

I agree that you need to use LRT, at this point if you are providing for any needs while she is with the OM then she is cake eating, that must stop.

OM = NM (No marriage)

Be the BEST DAD you can be because no OM is going to take their place, and you need to make sure of that.

Believe none of what she says and 1/2 of what she does.
Make your changes for YOU not to win her back.
Have no EXPECTATIONS.

Keep using your TIME wisely
She has given you a GIFT.

The GIFT of TIME.

Keep posting.

Me-70, D37,S36