Does she understand that if she does come live with you, you will not tolerate her running around all hours of the night and with whomever she wants and firm rules? My daughter knows that. She's not willing to give up the freedom that she has at her mom's house. She likes it the way it is...getting to run around all hours of the night wiht whoever she wants, and not having any firm rules to abide by.
Again, your ex does not want to work with you to get your kids back on track. That'a a shame. Our kids are more important than we are.
What are your ideas? I'm still thinking about what to do under these difficult circumstances.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.