Funny timing with you saying they are never wrong about anything.

Last night one of my friends called me to tell me she and her H are getting divorced. He has asked her 3 times in the past few years, blah, blah, blah. I shared about the DB/DR stuff, don't know if she will listen.

Anyway, she had to get something off her chest. She wanted me to know that last year in January, when we took her and her husband and several other friends out on the boat, including OW as my pretend friend she had seen something terrible.

She had gone down to the head, and caught my H kissing OW. My H said that she fell down. Later we were laying up on the trampoline, me on one side of H, OW on the other. Evidently he was holding my hand on one side and had his othwe hand under her sarong and sort of under her butt.

My friend said it upset her so bad she went home and was throwing up. Don't know why she waits til now to tell me.

I couldn't stop myself from asking H about this stuff this morning. He said my friend is a trouble causer and making stuff up. And God help me sometimes I just can't shut up. I said: So OW did fall and you just caught her on your face?

I guess which brings me to how do we continue on in the face of what is just a load of humiliation. My H can't even think to say he is sorry he was so careless about who saw.

I know I am supposed to be keeping the road home paved smooth. But some days I think I need the landslide repair guys to come by and work on my road. I had a nice memory of that day on the boat, and now it is icky.

I was stop-signing a lot last night. But it didn't help. And it also didn't help that I was looking for a photo of a tie-dye project for the quilt guild newsletter, but kept finding pictures of OW along with H on all the fun adventures we took her on. I finally got smart and put in the article with no photo....

Okay, I'm off to donate some stuff and head to power yoga!

Hope everyone has a nice day!

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!