I know im not supposed to snoop but i couldnt help myself. seriously the things she has been telling me never add up. I feel bad for snooping but its what i did.

well she had sent a message to her sister talking about her her mom is upset with her and that she is starting to become suspicious of what she is telling her the reasons she left me. and it turns out there is an OM..

this pisses me off because she is making me out to be the bad person and the reason why our marriage failed when she is the one with the affair. and the fact that she would get so upset with my EA and make me feel so horrible about it.

Idk what to do. now that i know im not really interested in the details. so first step is to stop snooping. 2nd step is where im lost