Jeannine,

How about crawling under the covers with hubby and help take his mind off his headache !! I do believe you both need each other's full focus and attention today. You want to start over-laying those painful memories with joyous ones. What better way?

Just keep reminding yourself that the events of January 22, 2003, are only kept alive in your memory now. That is not your reality. The reality of your life is a loving, remorseful H and a marriage that is getting stronger day by day.

I promise that it gets better.

Mattie