If it's uncomfortable for you to be there, don't be there. That's giving him, and you, space.

About the health issue, has he asked for your help?

Find 2thepoint's post from yesterday about the firemen.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss