thank you for your reply! Your post was a trigger to me. It reminded me some of the complaints he had 1 year ago, when he was saying that I want to have full control of my life and plan everything, while he was more relaxed. Thank you again, I need to work on that!
I am trying to detach, I have stopped snooping and contacting him. The problem is that I am despite the fact that I do not contact him, I am constantly thinking of him, wondering how he is doing. I am not worried whether or not he sees OW, I cannot control his feelings towards either of us. I am just worried if he is ok, if he is better now that I have withdrawn etc... This makes me really sad
Me: BW 30 Him: WH 31 T 12 years, M 3.5 No kids OW 27 single ex co-worker
Bomb: 13/07/2011 S: 13/07/2011 - 16/09/2011 H came Home 16/09/2011 Dday: 01/10/2011 H left again 23/11/2011
