Husband left me...feel hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

Hi,

Thank you so much for the insight and comparisons! It is completely hard and I do feel lost.

As for our history, he has never really complained about our relationship or why he's sad. He's the type of person who always NEEDS something new happening in his life. He is never completely satisfied with life and is always looking for the next high. I have always tried to be the upbeat happy one and keep him happy, but for this past year, he has been that for me and it's been tough. I guess I lost that "happy go lucky girl" this past year and he did make mention to that, but I still tried to be that person even though I was sad inside. I was sad inside because life overflowed for him a year and a half ago (same type of situation). He said that he was bored with the routine of his life and felt like he needed more in it and just wanted to start his whole life over. We worked through his "quarter life crisis" as we called it and started moving forward this past year. He, however, thought we did not make enough improvement and then did this again three weeks ago.

When we went to the DB coach, the only complaint he had about our relationship was that I don't get along with his family as well as I used to....and that was it!!! He said he had no other complaints about our relationship...just that he has no feelings left for me.

I'm really trying to give him his space and texted him last night to say not to worry about the dog and that I would make arrangements for her until I am done with the school year. He texted back "Why is that?" I simply said that I wanted him to focus on himself and that I didn't want to be a bother to him.

Ugghhh I hate this!