7 Years in. Time to give up ?

[DavidA]

Best thing for all concerned is to communicate and have an open mind. Most of all be fair with each other and keep the damned lawyers out of the equation. Work out between the two of you and bring it to the judge.

In the short term this is much more of a difficult thing to do. But in the long term it will save you both alot of money and heart ache. I know. Been there, done that. When we finally were able to sit down together we had it all worked out in a couple of hours. The judge was impressed, the lawyers were pissed ;-)