I'm really sorry for going missing on here for a while - my head's not been right. I really do appreciate the advice. I'm gonna post another update on developments.
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13