Hi mncwng,

I have just finished reading your thread and I find many similarities with mine (the age, the trigger that enabled the whole crisis, H's reactions).

I hope everything turns out for the best for both of us!

Me: BW 30
Him: WH 31
T 12 years, M 3.5
No kids
OW 27 single ex co-worker

Bomb: 13/07/2011
S: 13/07/2011 - 16/09/2011
H came Home 16/09/2011
Dday: 01/10/2011
H left again 23/11/2011

Separated since...