My goodness, two MLCers hooked up together, no wonder it is volatile, and they also probably think they are having fun. Not quite as we might see it though.

I never thought that my xh's OW1 [which lasted almost 6 years start to final finish, and like the bunny boiler I still wonder if she is waiting in the wings, although it began and ended more times than I could count, or cared to know about] could also be MLC. She certainly ended her previous r to be with my xh, but she was and probably still is a man hunter, and I am far from convinced that she remained faithful to my xh during that time.

But of course according to hm the reason it never worked was that he would still periodically try and leave her and come back to me. I love the way it is ALWAYS and invariably our fault. Whatever is wrong in their lives, and we are far away . . .

Unpredictable as they are, there is a predictability about the patterns they act, and they are never ever wrong about anything.