I am SOOO sorry to hear about your illness. I completely agree that if you fight as hard for your life as you do your m, you will kick the cancer's a$$!!!
I'm glad to hear about your mom. Let your w's timing about the mediation roll off your back.
Sometimes the WAS reminds me of that ackward kid who has a crush on the hot girl... they don't know what to say... so they say something completely inappropriate.
How would you like the D process to go? You've read my sitch so for me... I wanted to be as loving as possible.. to both my w and myself...
... so I've been going at my pace... against W's wants.
I know your w has all these wants.. but NOW is the time to take care of WLA. What does he want?
So happy to hear about your mom! Prayers answered for sure.
Originally Posted By: wawinla
I now look to myself as my anchor, not at my WAW. I try my best not to think of her, as I chose to focus on my new life, not hers. There is still bouts of anxiety and insecurity, afraid of the uncertainty inherent in this process, but I find myself looking forward to my new life and the adventures it holds.
I survived what was one of the most difficult experiences of my life when my W left...(thanks to everyone who has commented and supported me through my journey)....and I now approach cancer the same...I will fight and I will win!
This is soo great! It's been wonderful to watch you grow.
Keep on keeping on my friend!!
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
