Last Saturday he came by the house and picked all of his remaining clothes. He didn't take anything else (like his guitar or any other belongings). I arranged something else at the time he was going to the appartment. I knew that if I was there I would appear as needy and maybe crying while watching him.
Once he finished he called me crying asking to meet and talk. I refused to meet as I became very upset. I explained that I preferred to talk from the phone as I felt that if we met we would not be able to talk calmly. He agreed to talk from the phone later that evening. I called him late afternoon. He didn't answer and after a few hours I got a text message apologising for his reaction in the morning and that he preferred we do not talk. I didn't reply.
On Sunday we did not have any contact.
On Monday morning he sent 3 sms and called me asking to meet again. I refused again.
I need time for myself. I need time to find myself and concentrate on improving me.
Is it wrong to turn his invitations down? Also, did any of you had this kind of reactions from his/her WAS? Do you know of any possible explanation for this behaviour?
Me: BW 30 Him: WH 31 T 12 years, M 3.5 No kids OW 27 single ex co-worker
Bomb: 13/07/2011 S: 13/07/2011 - 16/09/2011 H came Home 16/09/2011 Dday: 01/10/2011 H left again 23/11/2011
