For some odd reason I was looking at my old wedding photos..... and seeing the photos of so many folks that have passed away sort of gave me that feeling Beatrice described.

I am sad that my dad, grand parents, various aunts and uncles and parents of friends are gone. But seeing their photos was just happy memories.

Also seeing photos of old friends whose friendships are gone was funny. I was just remembering the good parts, even though some of those friendships ended badly.

And I was actually thinking that someday I would feel that way about H, too. Must be feeling more that way, because the wedding photos didn't make me cry.... Sad a little, but no tears. So yes, Snodderly, a different way of caring is a good way to describe it.


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!