My H said to me for a while that his leaving was not what he wanted to do but I had forced him to leave. I somehow learned to keep my mouth shut and nod affirmatively. I dont have to answer every accusation my H makes. He wants to engage us in a fight so we can act angry and mad and he can say look I am right you are a crazy beetch.
A woman at al-anon shared the other night the best thing she ever learned to say was "Yeah, Ah ha, I've never looked at it like that, you may be right" and thats all you have to say. You dont need to win a debate. The truth will reveal its self it just takes its time
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
