Okay, development tonight.

Our gutter cleaner told us we need to repair a hole in vent/chimney from squirrel damage. Two of our neighbors have bats in their attic...ick! So, H says he would like to come over tomorrow and do the work. I asked him what time he was going to be here and said I would make plans to be out when he stopped by. Is this right? I do not want to small talk my husband in our home and pretend like he is not living across town. I plan to be out of here...good idea?

Also, he texted me from doctor today and told me he was scared because they were telling him he has an enlarged heart, had a super high systolic blood pressure and a leaky valve. I know he is scared. His Dad had a quintuple bypass and is not well. He has high cholesterol to boot....am I being too cold by not being here? He said he was scared. This is NOT like him.

Thanks for your advice my friends.


Me: 44 H: 45
Married 22
S 18, S 16
Bomb 8/11, Second Bomb 1/12