Okay, so I, or should I say we, saw our Divorce Busting coach this past Saturday for the first time and I feel like it went well. I didn't really learn anything new about the situation, but it felt good to see my husband (who I haven't seen in two weeks). Of course, her advice was to do the LRT, which is the hardest thing ever!!! In the past two weeks, I have only contacted my husband maybe 3 times regarding the dog. Then, when we went Saturday, she said I needed to stop completely which AGAIN is soooo HARD!!! I was good until....today! My H let the dog out but did not leave me a note if she ate or not, so I texted him asking about the dog. He said he did feed her and that was it. I was so mad at myself though for texting him, because I have gone three days without it, which is good for me (believe it or not!). However, I then proceeded to tell him I received Teacher of the Month from my network and he said congrats. I didn't want to share this with him, but it is habit!
Bottom line, I am just having a hard time completely withdrawing myself from him. I don't know what to do...
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
