netmaster, I wish H was a total jerk to my face so that I can have more of a reason to write him off. Instead, I know he spends the night with OW and on the flip side acts like my "friend."

I don't have it in me yet to just give up. After reading the Love Language book I realized that aside from affirmation, his love language is also quality time. I have totally been neglecting him on this.

I need my inner strength to get me through this where I can show him I can love. Meanwhile, I need to continue GAL activities!! Most importantly, I need my higher power and to detach!!

It won't be much longer before I will slowly let him go so that I can move on.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017