I say, get as much as you can without impoverishing him. But, you don't want to be left hungry either. If you have children, you have to think of them first. The possibility of reconciliation down the road, after D, is only a potential event. You have to deal with the "now". Detach, GAL, and see where things go, but where financial things are concerned, you have to be tough, or you will regret it later.
Just my opinion.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
