OMG I cant believe she is gone

[pulpwood]

I know nothing of LEGAL matters.

That said, I will tell you what I think about the money.

Do what you want with your personal acct. The joint savings on the other hand...that is touchy. It probably deserves a discusion with her.

If you want to speed up the D, go ahead and take the savings money to Vegas.

I think you should go. But not with joint money.

Hopefully MrBond will weigh in on a tactful and timely way to aproach the money.