I am simply more handy than him. It's not arrogance, just a by-product of being my father's daughter. Be it training or genetics, it was a gift. I'll be on the lookout for other opportunities/options.
If that is a fact and accepted by both yourself and your H, then so be it.
In that case, how else can your H feel needed by you? How else can he feel loved and appreciated by you, for the things he contributes to the M?
