hey psych77 - i think the tone of my last message to you was a bit hard and uncompromising- i'm sorry about that - terribly sorry. i should have waited until i was in a better mood to write back to you - it was my own mood coming through, frustration at my H and my own sitch - that was shading my reply
please forgive me - i am sure, as you say that your W was genuine in her hurt - and inciting you to be mad about the way she is dealing with it, by not allowing you guys to talk, - was suggesting the wrong way to look at things
i guess it triggered off my own experience where, whenever my H or I were hurt about something, instead of staying open and vulnerable and working through it, we would just shut down and it was so frustrating
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
