What do I do next? Part 3

[Accuray]

Hi Luvhurts49, I was thinking about you the other day wondering how things are going. Unfortunately I think that as long as OM is involved you're going to be fighting against the current. Even if you do get W to go to a couples communication class with you, she's still not viewing you as a couple right now, so she's not going to be coming in committed, you know?

There's nothing wrong with throwing a hail mary pass, but know that a lot of what she's saying are just excuses. She had an opportunity to get involved with OM and she decided to take it. What she's telling you now is mainly just going to be justifications for what she's done, so responding to those complaints or sentiments isn't going to get you anywhere.

She's going to re-write history so that she's comfortable with her actions. You don't have to participate in that fantasy.

I'm very sorry things haven't gotten any better, that sux, it's so difficult and hard to understand. I don't know how you're doing financially but I would renew my recommendation to speak with a DB coach.

Accuray