Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

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I ment to zig when he zags when he is around. Guess I wasn't understanding how much he is gone.

All I know is I feel like a puppy that my H shows a tiny bit of affection to, but I certainly don't feel like the favorite dog.

Anyway, I have just started saying yes to any and all plans hatched by my friends. Even hair-brained ones. Out of the house doing something is better than in the house waiting for scraps of affection.

There are co-dependent groups, too.