Wendy, it looks like OW likes to collect men, and can't let go once she has them on a string!
You are an amazing woman, and your H is one heck of a confused guy. You are handling everything the right way!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go