It's a tough balance to weigh where we are and where they are when they are confused and in need of space. At least in my sitch I feel it necessary for her to have this time by herself and only time will tell where we will end up.
I really like this. Maybe this whole thing is about letting go of expectations, allowing your WAS to have the time and space to sort it all out, while doing the same yourself. The hard part is that we don't KNOW where our sitchs will end up ultimately, but we can be in charge of where WE will end up ultimately -- and hopefully that's in a good emotional, mental, and physical place.
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12
