Quote: Right now he's probably feeling very torn between you and OW
Not sure I agree with this, h will call every 3 or 4 days just to check on our daughter and maybe ask about grandchild. h is extremely cold in conversations although i remain cheerful.
H called and left message yesterday and it sounded like a business call versus one to a friend, let alone a wife! right now, i am still trying to figure out what to do - stay or go? though i want my children to see marriage is worth fighting for.
In speaking with a pastor and someone who knows my h they seem to think it is an affair that just has to run its course and actually think that 6 months from now there should be some change that would help in what to do in this situation.
just really confused at this point, since my husband is my world and this has been by far the worst thing i have been through; just have to believe being with him for over 17 yrs has to be worth something and make him come to his senses!