Jeannine,

I'm really, really pleased and thrilled, for you!!!

And also, selfishly, for me and others, because it means that this kind of thing is not just a fluke or a one off, but something that so many of us can achieve if we stick the course...

I just feel immeasurably more optimistic about my situation too, even though H is going away for two weeks to a country where there is a potential OW that he has been in contact with by email and IM for over a year. I just feel that 'WE' have turned a corner, and that things can only get better, not worse, if we give it time and patience.

Does your situation already feel more open and honest than your M before Jeannine? The fact that he can articulate such concerns and reassurances?

Livnlearn


"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates