If you feel things ARE NOT working, then it is time to change what you are doing. How ever that may look.
Even if it 'looks' like I'm not doing anything?
I'm pondering what 25 said.....
"Back off...and then back off some more. THAT would show some change. But you have NOT given them nearly enough time to adapt to the new laid back NOT PURSUING, Antlers. The more you text the more it seems you are trying to control and that reeks of old Antlers...even if it's not true, it looks that way to them. The old you, pushed and pushed to get his way - and what they see NOW is the new you, doing a lot of what looks the same...pushing and pursuing."
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.