I'm still battling with the feeling I need something more than the infrequent dates & the texting. Communication has been our main problem, more on his side though. I use to wait (as per DB) to hear from him, but now he likes me to be the one to initiate texts etc. This isn't working for me. I need to feel he is trying, especially when he says he needs to work on opening up. I would be happy (for now) with him calling and texting 1st, more often. I wonder if I should talk to him about this, leave it for now, or have us go back to MC?


Me-36
H-37
D11 S8 S6
M9
T19
ILYNILWY 11/10
discover EA 02/11
discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11
H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11
Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12