Sage, It is awesome, isn't it? I'm feeling less lonely and more hopeful now that my H has stepped out on to that tightrope with me. - Incredible. -
Kaw, I'm lagging way behind with everybody's threads too. Wish there were a few more hours in the day. Yea, it would appear that another divorce has been busted around here. Mine! I know that this is not the end of the story, nor the end of problems, but it certainly is a better place to work from.
KewlKitti, Utterly!! Although it felt like a lifetime while I was crawling on all fours through the muck - looking back - I see a larger picture of enormous change unfolding in a relatively small amount of time. I think that due to the nature of the process in which growth is largely invisible to us, it feels like slow motion. I really, really hope that my situation provides hope and encouragement to all who are struggling through their own.
Rachael, Yes, he did give me a gift, something that I've longed for, for so long. I was emotionally compelled to give him something valuable in return. Reciprocity...
