Alanon is all about giving you the strength to detach and helping you find your answers. Don't expect a miracle in the first couple of meetings, but make a commitment to attend at least 6 in a couple of weeks.

Stay after and talk to the regulars. Invite someone to go to coffee with you.

They've been where you are now and will listen.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss