Sounds like a good set of positive interactions to me. II know it is hard but try not to attribute crappy moods or agitation to anything other than just what they are. For all you know, your W stubbed her toe or is maybe PMS'ng. So chill and be content.
I really like the vibe/mood you described in your house.
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Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife