okay, so is h just having an affair or is this mlc? i have been told he is going through a "me" stage and that he is just having an affair not going through mlc.
How do i know which it is? i have only been at this for 3 wks entering the 4th, but am trying to figure out my course of action based upon what i am dealing with.
when i spoke with the divorce coach, she stated i try and get my h to come by the house for small things in hopes to break up or threaten the affair(h told me he needs to see if this will make him happy, but does not know how long we are to live seperate with me and the children in the house and he in an apartment with affair)
I have tried to get him over on at least 2 occasions, but to no avail, h will not meet for lunch or any interaction with me - also has no interaction with 3 of 5 childre (the 3 that are with me 2 are mine and 1 is ours)
Needing/looking for some advice on what to do? in the beginning i was determined to stay and work through this situation what ever it is, now i am not sure as this is really stressing me and the family out!
