Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

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Thanks labug....I will try that. I suppose you mean by GAL and making plans that don't include him, etc? I will really try to wrap my head around the fact that he is gone. That is the hard part, isn't it? Some part of me thinks that I am GALing so HE can SEE me doing it, as opposed to me doing it for myself (which I also read in another thread). Gee whiz..what is wrong with me? I read Codependent No More at the gym. Wow. That book has more insight on me than you can imagine. In fact, it is frightening. I think I will try the day time Al Anon meeting tomorrow like ces did in that other post because the topic of that meeting certainly rings true here in my head.