Since DD he does things he never did before.
-He engages more with the kids
*He sees the kids at least twice a day and does it on a daily basis.
*He comes over every morning and lately comes over earlier.
*He will do things they enjoy.
-He has more interactions with me
*We talk (emotional intimacy).
*He invites me to family outings.
*We've spent a few weekends doing family activities.
*He calls throughout the day to talk. (although he hasn't these past couple days).
*He isn't on his cell as much.
*Last nite he mentioned that I make him feel more relaxed because I don't bring up intense conversations anymore.
*Less days when he's distant

Last nite he gave me an idea that he's still w OW and he will definitely be moving into an apt.

I can't sleep. Thoughts run through my mind as to what detachment means for me. I know that if I feel as though it's over, which I feel now, I no longer want to see him as much. No morning visits or Mon-Thurs visits. No contact during this time either.

Am I jumping the gun too soon?

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017