Hey there, WT, just catching up with your sitch. I haven't been on the board for awhile. I think I'm going to have to go to that site as well. Although, I think things are somewhat different in Canada. I would like to know whether we should sell our house before our D, or wait. I still have 2 years (as does D19) until I graduate, so I would be happy to stay in the house until then.
I also like to put music on and just dance with myself. It gets me into a good mood. Not that I'm ever in a bad mood per se, just hitting walls with the writing, and my courses. I find I spend a huge amount of time at my desk, and just need to move around.
I like that you are leaving your H to clean his own mess, and eat by himself. You don't owe him anything at this point. A H who can betray you, and can't decide what the he*k he wants doesn't deserve anymore than the absolute minimum, in my opinion. And, maybe he needs the space, as do you.
Take care, ciao for now.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
