Poor darlin', I know this is upsetting to you. Is this something your SURE your H wants to do?
I think if he does take the job, he means what he says that all that is behind him, but that does not take your anxiety away.(I hate that!)
Your forced to trust here. Suggesting he not take the job would not be a good thing I take it??
I think he knows how you feel about this without you even saying anything. If he's true to how he's been lately-so loving and understanding of your feelings, building a very intimate relationship, this will not change that.
Jeannine, he picked YOU. It's you he wants. Give him the freedom to do what he needs to do and he will love you all the more for it. It will be ok.......really! Rachael
Sooner or later, it all comes down to trust doesn't it? No matter what he does or where he goes there will always be the matter of trust.
Look at it this way. If he goes to work there again and she's there and he is over it and everything remains fine with the two of you that will be the ultimate assurance you are looking for.
Personally, I think he is dead serious when he says it's in the past and won't be an issue. Jeannine, you'll have to restle with your fears I know.
It's unfortuante that this opportunity came up in respect to the OW, but it's also and opportunity for him to rise to the task of reassuring you once and for all that you are the only one he wants.
