Jeannine -- Ah...this happened to me on a much smaller scale about 9 months ago...h was offered a consulting job (for a few days) at the company he used to work at...ow was still there
I can't tell from your post -- does ow still work at the lab?
Perhaps h's readiness to return to the scene is a test for himself? A sign about how far he thinks you guys have come?
Did he offer any insights to you?
I can see you strongly DB'ing your way thru this but I'm sure that doesn't make you feel any warmer...
tell us more about the conversation?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.