I am lucky (?) in that he is retired military. And we were married before he went in, so were married his whole 25 years in. So I get health insurance and half of his retirement, paid by allotment. But yes, he would have to pay the other, and I bet he would have a hard time with that.

He isn't money savey, despite having a degree in Economics and handling freakin' billions of dollars for the government......

OW living with her 1st XH is funny. The whole time I knew her she was in constant contact with him. At least 2 phone calls and MANY texts daily.

She went and spent 2 months there every summer since her fisrt D 12 years ago and supposidly he moves out of the house for those two months. Funny because he was there cooking her dinner when she and I spoke on the phone while she was still pretending to be my friend.

What does my H think? I don't actually think his brain is involved in this at all.... Because if he were thinking this would have come to a screeching halt about a year ago.....

I will check out that site!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!