Thank you CT n Leo. It helps to hear your advice.
I get the opposite from family n friends. They don't understand why I don't tell him off every chance I get. I tell them, for what? What will that solve?

We have coparenting counseling in 5 min. I have no interest in this. I admit we communicate a lot better because of it but I don't feel like working on my R w him.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017