More screaming from H today, insisting that he will not give me any more info on my financial situation (as my L requests) so that I can decide whether I can afford to do what he says and purchase a new car.
Here is his latest email to me:
"In this instance your delaying and obfuscating will effectively decide for you. I have made it very clear what your choice is limited to. Do it or don't do it - let me know if you decide to do it. By default - if you delay - everything will go to crap."
I think it's time to let him have a dose of reality. It's going to be hard for me and the kids, but there's no benefit to continuing to succumb to his tantrums.